you do not need to be perfect in order to give others a piece of advice.nobody's perfect kan?some people advise based on their personal experience,their mistakes which they do not want you to fall into,and some based on their knowledge.the people who give you advice can be someone you know like your parents,your siblings,your friends.or someone you barely even know,like a motivator or an ustaz or ustazah,perhaps.people's approaches to advise are also differ from one to another.some people advise nicely,use wise words.some people advise sarcastically.but still,their intention is good,kan?well,at least,think in the positive way lah.

those who receive advice,tak perlulah nak melenting sangat.

"cerminlah diri sendiri dulu.baru lah boleh nak nasihat orang.."

"macamlah kau tu baik sangat.nak nasihat orang konon.diri sendiri pun tak betul."

"eh!life aku..suka hati aku lah nak buat apa.kau sibuk apasal??"

hanya memberi beberapa contoh reaksi si penerima nasihat.seriously,touching lebeyh...if these are the ways you react upon the advice that have been given to you,you should knock your head on the wall,thousand times!no,you never will knock your head won't you?because you never listen to advice.you are just too arrogant.a negative thinker who think that the people who give you advice are just trying to put you down.hell yeah!all the people in this world want to put you down!all the people in this world dengki kat you!hah!!anda sungguh beraura negatif.tiada prasangka baik sudah.if you do not feel like taking advice or listen to advice, go and live on your own,where you can talk your way,dress your way,swear your way,eat your way.pretty much,everything your way.simple kan?

even if you do not agree with any advice that have been thrown to you,tak perlulah rasanya nak melenting.lagi-lagi bila yang menegur tu orang yang lebih tua daripada kita.kawal diri kita.just listen to it and take it.simpan dalam kocek diam-diam.dah.habis cerita..diam tak bermakna kalah kan?hormat tu sangat-sangat penting.

terlajak perahu boleh undur,terlajak kata badan binasa..

well,i am not saying this as if i never get mad when people give me advice.sometimes,i do.i curse these people too.but many times,the swearing got stuck on my tongue.they did not managed to come out from my mouth the way that they should.usually,i swallowed them back.do you get what i mean?well,sometimes,they managed to find their way out.i went 'Astaghfirullah al'azim' right away.see,i am not perfect either.but i am just telling you this for,..hmmm..for what,you think?hahah.

Sekian.Wasalam..